Couples, individuals, and leaders come to me at turning points in their lives. Together we find what’s keeping you stuck and take practical steps forward, with honest feedback and steady encouragement.
“Kairos” is the Greek word for the right, critical or opportune time. Maybe this is that time for you.
If any of these sound familiar, a free 15-minute Q&A is a good place to start.
Whatever you’re carrying, you’ll have room to say what’s really going on without being judged.
I’ll name the patterns I notice, kindly and directly, and we’ll work out the next step together.
Before coaching, I spent decades as a missionary, pastor, chaplain, and counselor. I’ve sat with executives facing hard decisions, couples who felt stuck, families walking through loss, and plenty of people who simply knew something needed to change. What I enjoy most is seeing someone get unstuck and take the next step.
I’ve been married 49 years, and I’m a father and grandfather of six. Those years, and the people I’ve walked with, have taught me that most change happens one honest conversation and one small step at a time, and that it goes better with someone in your corner.
My approach is rooted in faith, and I welcome people from every background. What matters most is that you’re ready to do the work.
M.Ed. Counseling, Xavier University · Life Coach & Certified Chaplain
Kairos Opportunities LLC
Most people who reach out are in one of these places. All of them are good starting points.
We experience enough pain that we must change.
We gain enough understanding that we want to change.
We receive enough grace and encouragement that we can change.
The goal is to get 1% better.
Change usually comes in small steps. Each session aims to leave you a bit clearer and steadier than the last, and we build from there.
For engaged and married couples who want to grow closer or get unstuck. You can start even if only one of you is ready.
Learn moreFor seasons of grief, anxiety, anger, or major transition, when you want someone steady beside you.
Learn moreFor executives, pastors, and business owners who want to lead with clarity and keep their lives in balance.
Learn moreFor anyone who wants to grow with purpose, in faith and in daily life, and follow through.
Learn moreSmall groups of 3–6 people, 8 weeks, in person or online. Knowledge changes what you know. Community changes what you do.
Learn moreCoaching works best when you’re not in crisis. If you’re dealing with abuse, addiction, or a recent affair, or you don’t feel safe at home, coaching isn’t the right first step. Reach out anyway, and I’ll help you find the right person.
This fall I’m giving extra time to couples. Start with The Same Fight, a free 5-minute tool that shows how each of you handles conflict, and ask me about the marriage workshop I’m planning.
Try The Same FightDuane is a person who listens to hear and not to respond. He hears to see you. So many times my words say one thing but mean so much more. He is able to see through to the heart. Duane uses the term “1% better.” He is realistic that most change does not occur overnight. But he is there to encourage and speak openly and honestly to keep you on course. His honesty truly is a gift.
I was a high-task CEO that Duane nurtured and coached into seeing the world differently, and just as importantly, how taking action does change that slice of the world. I heartily recommend Duane as a caring, nurturing person who does an outstanding job helping a person become who they can be.
It was such a pleasure working with Duane for couples counseling before our wedding. He had a great way of celebrating successes and identifying potential stumbling blocks within our relationship. He is so incredibly kind hearted but also so real. He brought such a peaceful presence to our wedding day. I’m glad he was such an integral part of our day!
Duane helped me to recognize that there was so much more beyond the rhythms that my life had settled into. His insightful counseling uncovered what was holding me back and helped identify paths forward to craft a more fulfilled life and active faith. He helped me develop skills and strategies I can continue to use when challenges cross my path, to stay true to my purpose and keep growing incrementally each day. I am so thankful for the gift of Duane’s counsel and guidance.
Duane leads with true compassion for people. He has a keen ear and an open heart to hear your individual story. His approach is consistent and grounded, but I always knew he was listening to my needs. Guidance was based on my goals and desires. I highly recommend him as a trusted coach and counselor.
